Last updated: 7/2009

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Dear Friend:
You?re out on a first date with a guy you?ve known casually for a while. You think he?s a nice guy, but even nice guys seem to have only two things on their minds.
Sports. And sex.
But this man is different. He doesn?t talk about football or baseball. He doesn?t talk a whole lot about himself. And he?s not coming on to you.
He wants to talk about you.
He?s just that into you!
He asks you lots of questions ? including questions no other guy has ever asked you. Questions about your family. Your hobbies. And your values.
It?s not that he?s keeping secrets. When you ask him questions, he gives you thoughtful answers.
But he makes it a two-way conversation, not a one-way street.
And he?s not a cold fish, either. During this long date, which extends from afternoon into evening, he?s been holding your hand.
Should you ask him to come in?
Just the feel of his hand in yours sends tingles up your arm ? and down there.
Is this the guy you?ve always dreamed of? The guy who really cares about you? The guy who wants a real partnership with the love of his life, and who?s willing to work to make it happen?
Will he ask you to sleep with him tonight?
Now you?re pulling up to your apartment in his car. Should you ask him in?
Yes! He?s the nicest, most interesting guy you ever dated. And you don?t want to lose him. Even if he expects you to sleep with him tonight.
No! You?re not ready to. You just don?t believe in doing that on a first date, even though you?ve known him for several months.
The two thoughts wage a furious battle in your mind: No! Yes! No!
You don?t know how to make a decision.
But when he turns off the car?s engine, you blurt out, ?Will you come upstairs for a while??
?I?ve got condoms. I?ve got spermicide,? you say to yourself. And you lead him upstairs to your apartment.
He sits next to you on your couch ? and continues your conversation.
His words are like poetry
Despair! He?s not coming on to you.
Maybe he really doesn?t want me. Maybe I?m not sexy enough.
Ecstasy! He really is interested in me. He?s not coming on to me, even thought I?m so sexy.
He senses your uneasiness by the look on your face.
He gets you talking about it.
And then he admits he has the same conflict you do. He?s throbbing with desire for you. But he wants a healthy relationship, not just sex.
Yes! He wants you. But he wants the whole you. Including the things he doesn?t know about you yet.
But he doesn?t leave it at that! He tells you how pretty you are. His words seem like poetry.
It?s a night you?ll always remember!
Wow, he?s handsome! That tingle I feel is driving me wild now.
I want to tell you the wonderful, romantic story about this man named Jack ? and Katie, the woman he falls deeply in love with. Click here to get it now!
It?s an inspiring story for women to read in this age when it feels like pornographic images and values are surrounding us.
Those values are poison. They can cause a nasty personal problem for women. They lead men to make demands on women that undermine relationships.
He?s just that into you
How can you love a man who wants you to do things that hurt your body and wound your soul? I don?t have to name them. We both know what they are.
The pressure of pornographic values is powerful. Many women submit to them. They give up on love and settle for sex.
But Katie wasn?t willing to settle for that. And you don?t have to, either.
Because even if your dream of true love has been battered and bruised by a parade of men who want you to perform like a porn star, you can still find the man of your dreams.
You have to nourish that dream, keep it alive, and help it grow until you find the love of your life.
The movies and TV won?t help you do that.
There?s no TV show called ?He?s just that into you.?
The values shown on TV and in the movies are almost never about love.
Fantasizing about Mr. Right can actually help you find a man who believes in love. A man who cares about you. A man who wants to be close to you during sex, willing to hug you, caress you, and say tender things to you that he really means. A healthy relationship.
Katie found a man like that in Jack. Click here to get Katie?s story now!
But Jack wasn?t always that way.
The truth is, Jack had a huge personal problem in his past. He was once a sex addict. He was into porn values in a big way.
He freed himself from porn values
Like many men who are into porn, Jack actually hated it.
He realized porn values attracted him to the wrong kinds of women.
He finally understood he?d never find the love of his life as long as he embraced porn values.
He knew he needed help. He found it. And he conquered porn for once and for all.
Not by wishing for it to leave him alone. That won?t work.
Not by making resolutions to banish pornographic values from his mind. That won?t work either.
Jack conquered porn by understanding why he was attracted to it. And making important changes in his thinking so that porn was no longer attractive to him.
He had to take a long, hard look at his fantasies. He had to examine his unsatisfactory relationships with women.
And he had to create new ways of thinking and new values for himself.
Jack?s story will inspire you. Here was a man with a huge heart, who loved children and wanted to have kids of his own.
Covering up personal problems
But he could not understand why the love of his life was nowhere to be found.
Until he conquered porn ? and found Katie.
If you know a good man who is distressed by his addiction to pornography or sex, give him Jack?s story to read. Click here now to get both inspiring stories!
It could make a huge difference in his life. And who knows! Maybe yours, too.
Not only that, reading Jack?s story will help you figure out if a guy who says he?s recovered from porn or sexual addiction really has turned over a new leaf ? or if he?s giving you a line and covering up his personal problem.
Conquering porn and sexual addiction takes a new way of thinking. A way of thinking that many people are not yet familiar with.
Now, for the first time, you can see how a sex addict taught himself to think this new way and free himself from addiction.
Jack had to examine his behavior in detail. So parts of his story are sexually explicit.
But the important thing is that you?ll actually see how Jack changed his thinking, step-by-step.
There is hope. For men. For women. For Love. For you.?
Romantic story
Best of all, the process Jack followed is no mystery. It?s based on the science of psychology. So it can be duplicated ? and followed ? by other men.
?Jack?s story and Katie?s story are based on sound psychology,? says practicing psychotherapist Dr. James Kousoulas, who has helped many men overcome sexual addiction and change pornographic thinking into loving thinking.
??These inspiring stories show what happens when a good counselor helps men change.?
There?s no psychological mumbo-jumbo in Jack?s story. It?s told in plain English. And it?s fictionalized, so it?s easy and fun to read.
You can read both stories ? Jack?s and Katie?s ? in less than an hour! Click here to get both Jack?s and Katie?s stories now!
I?m willing to bet you won?t be able to put them down once you?ve started reading.
These inspiring stories are not available anywhere else. They?re sold directly to people like you, only on the Internet.
You?ll be encouraged by them. And thrilled, too.
There is hope. For men. For women. For Love. For you.tm
?Click here to get both Jack?s and Katie?s stories now!

Sincerely yours,
Pat Johnson-Hart
Pat Johnson-Hart
Publisher
A Healthy Relationship Press LLC

P.S.???? Why you might feel very uneasy if a guy
doesn?t come on to you on a great first date ?
even if you don?t want him to ? and what to do about it. The guy?s response will tell you a huge amount about him! See page 18
of Katie?s Story! Click here now!
P.S. 2 If you?re like many women I know, you?d like to talk with your lover during foreplay and sex. Yet most men want silence. Find out why on Page 19 of Jack?s Story! Click here now!
P.S. 3 The most important question a guy can ask you. Shows he?s smart ? and seriously interested. See page 10 of Katie?s Story! Click here now!
P.S. 4 Find out why a kind, loving man may have violent sexual fantasies ? and how that will effect your romantic relationship